You Don't Love Everyone, So Stop Saying You Do

I'm tired of people coming out and saying something stupid and offensive and then apologizing for their ignorance with the classic line "I love everyone" thrown in. Why can't people just stop the charade and admit the truth: that they don't like certain people and they don't love everyone. If these bigots/homophobes/whatever are so honest in admitting what they hate about people different from themselves, why can't they show that same honesty when confronted with that hatred?